Ashna With The Ways

We all have been through this phase or are going through or may be its still to come . It is that one month that    decides as to what will happen with your life ,it is that one  month that decides what you will be and that  one month that takes us on a roller coaster ride of emotions . Some just curse this time ,some know that this month will be the best for them . For some its like more add-on time to their regular sleep . 12th grade is gone. We all know the very next step after it. Getting ourselves registered, applying to various colleges, universities etc. Some decide to drop a year and prepare and most of the students are just eager to explore the real world waiting ahead for them. For students moving from small to big towns , is a really big deal. They finally get to see the world beyond their limited scope. Students just keep thinking and imagining as to how their new life will be , how will they manage everything in limited money, limi...

  It seems to be a word that most of us will agree to know but in reality in some part or the other we do not know the actual sense of it. Friends , they are just meant to be crazy ,mad , totally free and psychotic when around each other. Friends have  a relation which is deeper than that of two siblings or couple. ........And in  a few cases friends occupy more space in life than parents and family. Imagine  a day when u go to school or college and do not find your friend there. You think... "OK,may be he/she must be late." But in reality we just get over them if they do not turn up. It is extremely tough to survive in this world without friends. This was just a small example . Be it your first day at your school or college OR  your last.... without friends nothing seems to be easy. For people living away from their families and home , these friends together make up their  own family. They share everything ...(mind you not the private stuff) , get...

Imagine India almost thirty years back.... Full respect for women ....full support to sisters  but still support was not enough. The status of girls has always been controversial in India. People were never and still some are not open to the fact that girls can go to pubs or have a job ....be independent.. ....And may be this might be a reason that why girls and women are facing such crisis in their own homes and offices. Girls are treated like crap. Boys play with them as if they they are some play toys ... Well it might hit hard but still at present as to whats happening in India, i guess this what can be concluded.  Specially as to what is happening in the capital city of India, Delhi and other metropolitan cities .... The condition is worse in Delhi... not worse ...worst in Delhi .. the rape case that happened on 16th December was horrible .. This show mentality of  men out here in our society .. The victim died ..I want to know what was her fault ..and now ...

Well are you single??????? ...This has now become a very common question.. Whether its facebook ,myspace or any other social networking  site . If u add any stranger to your friend list the first question that comes up from them ...is ...are you single?? I mean they wont have a look at the info given and will not ask ,"hey how are     you",     but are you single?? Almost 70% people people do the above..Is it necessary to be single before we add new friends to our list?? I just hate it.. People are just coming on social networking sites just to flirt or to have online fun.. Very few of us are actually there for friendship.. Before posting this I actually tried it myself. My status on facebook is single..and  I used to get tons of friend request. I changed my relationship status to "its complicated"...........And i guessed it right the number of friend request that i used to get just fell down by almost 95%. .. A few days later i tu...