Ashna With The Ways

Imagine India almost thirty years back.... Full respect for women ....full support to sisters  but still support was not enough. The status of girls has always been controversial in India. People were never and still some are not open to the fact that girls can go to pubs or have a job ....be independent.. ....And may be this might be a reason that why girls and women are facing such crisis in their own homes and offices. Girls are treated like crap. Boys play with them as if they they are some play toys ... Well it might hit hard but still at present as to whats happening in India, i guess this what can be concluded.  Specially as to what is happening in the capital city of India, Delhi and other metropolitan cities .... The condition is worse in Delhi... not worse ...worst in Delhi .. the rape case that happened on 16th December was horrible .. This show mentality of  men out here in our society .. The victim died ..I want to know what was her fault ..and now ...

Well are you single??????? ...This has now become a very common question.. Whether its facebook ,myspace or any other social networking  site . If u add any stranger to your friend list the first question that comes up from them ...is ...are you single?? I mean they wont have a look at the info given and will not ask ,"hey how are     you",     but are you single?? Almost 70% people people do the above..Is it necessary to be single before we add new friends to our list?? I just hate it.. People are just coming on social networking sites just to flirt or to have online fun.. Very few of us are actually there for friendship.. Before posting this I actually tried it myself. My status on facebook is single..and  I used to get tons of friend request. I changed my relationship status to "its complicated"...........And i guessed it right the number of friend request that i used to get just fell down by almost 95%. .. A few days later i tu...

Most of us during free time watch TV . Even I'm  among  one of those . I get any free time , my hands move quickly to the remote...And when you just have to get rid of the regular boring work.. you even start liking channels like doordarshan (nothing personal ).. There is a huge variety now for us to watch on television .There's comedy ,action daily soap,drama , classic tales, and historic tales. We often make some shows our favourite. Most of us are just clued to some shows. Even clued to a handful of shows like GREYS ANATOMY & BADE ACCHE LAGTE HAIN. In India a huge population is clued to daily soaps.. Shows which don’t have any hands or legs yet people love watching such shows.. And quite a lot of Indians start connecting themselves with the characters showcased in that show. This is not only in India but people all across the world some how people  try to connect themselves with their favourite character .   Even I'm addicted to "MEREDITH GREY O...

Looking out , No clue at what But still I'm looking out , All so lost , all so lovely Lost somewhere in the world , But no idea at what . Smiling creepily So lost in smiling Giving weird remarks .. At something so pointless . Lost somewhere in the world But no idea at what . Feeling all so good .. Leaving all behind, Thoughts don't matter anymore Being lost is something in mind Being lost somewhere in the world But no idea at what ...

You know people say that the last two years of school life i.e 11th and 12th is considered to be the best time of life ... And college to be even better .. Just think if someone gets both of these  at the same time.. well you just have to be in a junior college to get such a kind of feeling . The fun ,the excitement . the enthusiasm  doubles when students step into the two beautiful years of their life. The fun of college and strictness of school all together . Students living in metros can generally get this awesome and fantastic opportunity .. i got this awesome chance of feeling like in heaven... Me and my friends have full on fun when we have to ... and we study as soon as we see the lecturer entering the class . The fun at college fests and the spirit of co-operation that we learn at these college fests is just incredible. Where as at school  we just learn to be perfect in every manner . Junior college teaches us way more than what schools tea...

I belong to a male dominated country and scociety .. Every parent (quite a huge majority ) wants a male child . Whats the difference between a  boy and a girl child . For me its nothing but for some people they take it as their reputation of haing a male child . If a girl is born then............. then it is not at all easy for her to survive in todays world . A girl has to always listen and listen for her entire life .Even if she is right her opinion is not regarded important .She is always regarded as a liability for theit parents and not a child who might in future may make them proud. Most of the people say that we should respect females but its a question to be taken in mind do they actually practice this saying in their own house?? A great majority of people will not give a positive answer.....The reason is pretty obvious ... They themselves do not treat their daughters or wives as they should. Some of you will be thinking that what am i writting ... This never happens t...

This is a kind of love story ...or you can say a confused love story ... Its a true story...but names are different and related to one of my friends... There was this girl named Nikki .. She was in 12th and was studying in a reputed junior college of mumbai.. She was  a jovial kind of girl ...calm ...and easy going ... She had a crush on her neighbour... She liked him ...and that guy as well liked her a lot.. His name was Sam. ,.....but here comes the crack .. Sam was ten years older to Nikki and was a MBA student.. Now with this age difference they found it hard to contact each other... Nikki one day got Sam's number from her dad's cellphone .. she contacted him...and gradually they started talking.. But Nikki did not tell him her real name.. Instead of this Sam knew that it was Nikki and so he asked her to stop using a fake name... After that they started talking and the number of meetings began to increase ... They never accepted their love for each other... Sam...